Brian Fantana

How to manage pay-for-play relationships

Really sugar daddy is here! Being a sugar daddy isn’t just about running around St. Tropez with a bevy of tanned 20-somethings on your aging arm, Sugar daddies have problems, too. And there are some suggestions for new daddies!

Don't become intimate too quickly: you may want to reach an agreement on the first night. Do not! A true sugar daddy will wait until he feels comfortable with his sugar baby. No one can really know this on the first date. At least go out for a few appointments. I have learned from my experience that there is no close relationship before monogamy.

Set a firm line: be prepared in advance to ensure that both sides know what the boundaries and expectations are. Sugar Daddy should not write any content related to compensation in writing. And she must believe that he will live up to his trade, just as he hopes she will. Spontaneously agree with the initial considerations and leave room for the development of the relationship. Agree what kind of care she needs. For example, she may not want to be handed over an envelope full of cash, and you may not be satisfied with a massage of the foot every night.

To respect: Sugar daddy needs to respect his sugar baby and listen. Sugar Baby/Sugar Daddy’s relationship may be unconventional, but it's important to remember that it's still a relationship; it's not just a business deal. She is not your property, movable property or employee. Her needs need to be met like you.

Effort: You need to have an emotional and physical conection, you need to share some of the same interests - or at least be willing to. Even if you have a bank account, you still need to keep your baby happy. why? She may become selfless and leave. If you don't have your money, you may not be able to date with her - so try to make her really like you. This is where things get complicated. For example, if the sugar baby is too attached, then the sugar daddy is best to remind them how they met and what they expected. The reverse is also true: sugar babies should remind sugar daddy of their relationship.

Don't concentrate on money: Sugar daddy has money, sugar baby has sugar. Both have what they know they want. Money may be part of the equation, but it is not a bargaining chip. This relationship is deliberately fulfilling each other's needs through something that you can easily provide. For example, this is no different than knowing that your wife likes flowers and gives her a bunch of flowers a week. In this case, you only need to quickly forward to this stage.